Over the last two years I’ve been deeply encouraged by
figures of history who have done tremendous things, despite illness. When I was a child we learned about
heroic figures such as Abraham Lincoln or John F. Kennedy, but somehow their
ailments and struggles were omitted from what we learned. Perhaps historians felt these facts
would somehow make them weaker figures.
Yet, I have found that knowing these figures’ struggles and hardships
have left me with an even greater awe and admiration for these people I have never
met. In fact their personal
struggles, I believe, make these figures’ stories more beautiful.
It all started last year when Christopher got a cold and was out of school for a couple of days. His class was learning about Theodore Roosevelt. I got several books from the local library and was fascinated to learn that he
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Christopher as JFK next to his project for school. |
was sickly as a child, and often struggled to breath. As we read about Theodore and then
Franklin (who had polio) I was very intentional about trying to connect how
these leaders were able to accomplish great things in the midst of pain,
hardship, and illness. I
definitely got the “Yeah, yeah…” response, any seven year old little boy might
give. Yet, it challenged me, as I started to recall other biographies I had read, where people
overcame not just personal hardship but physical ailments to accomplish
important things. Abraham Lincoln
struggled with depression, Helen Keller was blind and deaf, and John F. Kennedy
had such severe back pain that he had meetings with close advisors while
soaking in his bathtub!
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We were so proud of the hard work he put into this project! |
A little over a week ago Christopher
participated in history day at his school. He spent about three weeks researching John F. Kennedy in
preparation for the speech and project he created. It’s embarrassing to admit, but all I knew about JFK before
this project was that he was Catholic and was assassinated. It was eye opening to learn more about
his journey, especially his illnesses and personal tragedies. Christopher and I discovered together
that this historical figure was very sick as a child, dealt with severe chronic
back pain, was diagnosed with Addison’s disease, and had two siblings die as young
adults. Kennedy refused to let
these challenges prevent him from accomplishing his goals, and Christopher
seemed to connect this more to his own life this time. Again I was inspired and hopeful.
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One of the many notes he took for his project. |
John
F. Kennedy said, “We choose to go to the moon… and do the other things, not
because they are easy, but because they are hard.” When Christopher was in my belly, I often prayed that he
would be a “fighter.” That this
child I had would know the importance of not giving up, no matter what. LCHADD can make certain tasks feel
harder at times, but this doesn’t have to be the end of Christopher’s story. The longer I live, the more I believe
that the power to change things for the good is born out of struggle. My hope is that Christopher will
use his struggles to create beautiful and powerful changes in this world.
*In loving memory of Grandma O, who adored JFK and my sister, Veronica, who taught me about courage and pain.
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